Definitely a believer of this. Life is what you make of it. If you go around complaining about how tough life is, all you do is attract more similar situations. Try to find a way to spin a negative situation like being thankful that you are going through this because you've either learned from it or have become stronger person because of it. It wouldn't be so bad if life was as exciting Nitro at Six Flags, because I LOVE that ride.